My youngest son has the personality of Attila the Hun when he is angry, minus the mass genocide. He is a very strong little man, and when he is upset about something, he wants you to know it. Really really know it. You know my middle son, Jakob, the one who has come up with such lovely Jakeisms as “Mommy, is that your bomb?” and “I poop, blue”  and “A round of a Blahs Please!” He has many times, been at the receiving end of my 16 month old’s fiery wrath. To put the words on paper, does not do them justice. Jakob is an entirely different breed of cute. You know that Jerry Macguire kid we all fell in love with? He was cute, in that sarcastic, cynical old soul sort of way. Jake is like that kid, except he has the wit of a genius and an ability to make you laugh over anything and everything. Michael, the 16 month old, was frustrated at his John Deer riding tractor. He loves to stand on it, balancing his weight from foot to foot, and digging a permanent resting place in my throat, for my heart. I can never relax around this kid, he is always climbing onto things, and jumping off of them. He loves this tractor, but prefers standing atop it, rather than sitting. For the last time that day, he had fallen off and was throwing an “Im pissed and you are gonna know it” tantrum, squealing like I stopped feeding him a week ago. His face was red, he was pulling his own hair and all of us were watching him flail around on the floor in protest. It’s a phase, it has to be a phase. Toddlerdom is akin to two years in the throes of war, any normal toddler can go from being a perfect angel to sprouting horns and carrying a pitchfork with little to no notice. This is normal, as angry as he sounds, I know that this is normal. (crosses fingers) I walk by him doing my best to ignore his insanity, and I mutter under my breath “Why won’t you let go of your anger, Mike?” I felt this was an appropriate question, as he thrashed on the floor at my feet, screaming his little lungs out. He was angry, and his tiny little fists beating on the carpet were evident of this. Jake, my resident commentator was sitting on the breakfast stool watching the scene unravel. His face was stoic, his mannerism calm and subdued. He was eating his string cheese, one rebellious bite at a time. He didn’t smile. He simply announced to the room : “He will never let go of his anger.” before breaking into a wide grin. He giggled and we all collapsed into laughter, the baby following suit and swinging towards the healthy side of the bi-polar spectrum. He is quick to let us know he is uncomfortable, but he also can giggle like a pro.He may never let go of his anger, but man if it isnt entertaining while it’s here. This has been a signature sentence in our home since then, being exclaimed whenever someone throws a tantrum. If I forget the laundry detergent at the store and mumble curses under my breath, I am met with the simple phrase “He will never let go of his anger.” If someone hogs the rest of the chocolate milk, “He will never let go of his anger.” Its a funny little way to lighten the drama level in the house, to remember that throwing a fit is about as sensible as jumping on a glass coffee table. A baby can pull it off, but you don’t even want to try it. One day, when I can no longer write and my fingers have dry heaved their last bits of data, and the monkey butler robots have taken over the internets, I will have these little moments written down for my children to read. Little snippets of the life we share through the years. I didn’t do so hot on their baby books, I admit it. But the stories we will continue to share. They will love it, Why?

Because I’m their mother and I said so.

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