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Stop teaching abstinence.

Posted by December | Posted in Browse all articles! | Posted on 07-08-2009

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  • At 2009.08.07 12:21, Sizan Rexen said:

    No kidding! Since when has abstinence EVER worked?! Most kids nowadays learned more sex education on a five minute bus ride to school in the back of the bus than they learn in 4 years in high school. Sex Ed, what a fucking joke!

    • At 2009.08.07 12:47, Hemptress December said:

      I think ultimately the responsibility starts and ends with the parents.

      • At 2009.08.07 11:16, Wayward Bill said:

        December is this blog linked to FB…???
        Thanx,
        Bill

        • At 2009.08.07 11:17, Dec. said:

          it is, is that a problem?

          • At 2009.08.07 11:38, GarrE said:

            I don’t believe Abstinence Education (alone) is the answer. Yes, it is something that can be talked about, but far too many people believe that if abstinence is presented as the only form of education, that all kids will be abstinent. That’s a flat out joke. I wholly endorse what you said here.

            • At 2009.08.07 11:39, Dec. said:

              Woot! Thanks Gar!

              • At 2009.08.07 18:53, Sizan Rexen said:

                That is true December, but the main problem with parents is that they try to shelter their kids all the time, never let them have any life experiences, and then expect them to be street smart by experiencing life throught tv or an equivalent to that. Not to mention they never talk about anything with their kids or explain anything.

                • At 2009.08.08 08:20, Liz said:

                  I agree. Far too many parents are relying on the school system to teach their children, but the school system is acting like a bunch of bratty two year olds with their fingers in their collective ears screaming “I can’t hear you!” Its scary really. I always knew what a condom was, and I was put on BC @ 16 by my mom, even though I wasn’t having sex. She wanted me to be prepared, even though she didn’t think me having sex was the best idea at the time. Teaching abstinence only is about as effective as telling two teenagers that what they are feeling isn’t love. It may be altogether true, but they’re not listening anyways. Better to prepare them than have to set up the spare room for junior.

                  • At 2009.08.08 23:02, Leslie Siegel said:

                    Hmmm, I don't know.

                    • At 2009.08.10 07:44, Megz said:

                      I agree with everything. Woot! :) Good post.

                      • At 2009.08.11 14:23, ultra_bright said:

                        Look at Bristol Palin, that’s a great example of abstinence programs not working. Sarah Palin was a huge supporter of programs like that, yet she couldn’t even get her own daughter to keep her pants on!

                        • At 2009.08.13 22:07, bhndthemask16 said:

                          And that is why my mother had a talk with myself and my brothers (I’m the only daughter of three kids). She told my brothers that anytime they needed to talk or needed something to let her know. So if they had a problem or needed condoms, they could have gone to her, but I don’t believe they ever did haha. I did have the unfortunate day I found the box of condoms in my brother’s glove compartment of his car, and got really grossed out, but at least he was being safe. My rebel brother accidentally got his girlfriend pregnant, but they were 24 and 25, so it wasn’t crazy young. Unfortunately they were way too unprepared, and luckily my brother has stepped up and done a great job so far raising my nephew.

                          However, anyone who believes abstinence is the only way to teach kids, is crazy. A girl in my night class last semester tried to say that, and immediately all the hands in the class went up, and we all said the same thing, “Yea, if you want a lot of teenage pregnancies and a lot of teens with STD’s, safe sex is better to teach”

                          Anyways, done with my rant, and totally agree with you!

                          • At 2009.08.16 21:14, Peaceful Cynic said:

                            Yep!
                            Great post for sure! I was taught abstinence only as a kid and you can bet I was screwing around as a teen.

                            • At 2009.08.16 21:18, Peaceful Cynic said:

                              Great post!
                              I wholeheartedly agree. I was taught abstinence only as a kid and you can bet that I was screwing around every chance I got.
                              What cracks me up are these flash in the pan teen idols preaching abstinence and then come out a few years later saying it was a lie.
                              Yeah I really believe that Joe Jonas is a virgin.

                              • At 2009.08.16 21:19, Peaceful Cynic said:

                                Great post!
                                I wholeheartedly agree. I was taught abstinence only as a kid and you can bet that I was screwing around every chance I got.
                                What cracks me up are these flash in the pan teen idols preaching abstinence and then come out a few years later saying it was a lie.
                                Sure. I really believe that Joe Jonas is a virgin.

                                • At 2009.08.16 21:23, Peaceful Cynic said:

                                  Oh Hi.
                                  Its me again. The one who just posted pretty much the same thing three times.
                                  I apologize. My computer seems to have a mind of its own tonight.
                                  Mercury in Retrograde perhaps?

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